LoveSmart
Transforming the Emotional Patterns That Sabotage Relationships
Sandra Michaelson
296 pages. Quality Paperback
Are you ready for genuine truth, balance, joy,
and love in your relationship?
This challenging book is designed for readers who are not afraid to face the truth about themselves and how they collude in their relationship disharmony.
It demonstrates through theory, examples, and exercises how our unconscious interpretations and beliefs affect our relationship. We see how we are aligned with being an innocent victim, making our partner responsible for our feelings and behaviors.
More specific topics include:
- Why we choose our partners.
- The meaning of the begging-bowl syndrome.
- The origins of control issues and what we can do about them.
- The clear difference between genuine love and addictive attachments.
- How sexual issues reflect our emotional conflicts.
- The tendency to repeat compulsively self-sabotaging patterns of behavior.
- The illusion of reforming our partner, and how to take responsibility for ourselves.
How we feel about our partner is a reflection of our own relationship with ourself. This book shows you how to repair this relationship with yourself, thereby helping to improve your relationship with your partner.